I think Fixed Marriage
is good for young people. Especially someone who is shy guy. For example most
of difficult people can’t express their emotions when they met someone who was
truly love they can’t take about love it. They don’t know how to get long with
the opposite sex. In this case, they can’t find the partner. In Chinese, their
parents will help them for arranging a date. It is called blind date. It just
like Japan Fixed Marriage. It will avoid some of troubles and have high
successful percent for young people.
However, J.F.M.
also have bad side. It will make a big mistake which you will regret in your
rest of life too. Because, in J.F.M., you may be not satisfied with appearance
such like this.
In addition to,
I know another disadvantage of J.F.M. It is a tendency which is increasing same
type’s people in a family. It is the reason why many parent like same opinion’s,
similar to life styles or class of society’s family. Also they offer these
family’s son or daughter for their child’s spouse. In my opinion, J.F.M. system
had been many advantage in old days. For example, a family keep them tradition
and the quality of profession from the point of view at ease a thought control
in family. However, today people’s values dramatic change. Now a day, J.F.M.
may lost former position as the best way of marriage.
After all the marriage
is not a joke. It’s so holy in people’s life. J.F.M. create a chance for people
to make their own marriage. Meanwhile, J.F.M. has risk too. We must make a
right choice!
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