Japanese marriage have a lot of kinds.
Japanese fixed marriage is one of the means to find a partner. It has opened a meeting since the past. However it has advantage and disadvantage.
I know advantage of Japanese fixed marriage.
First, it is easy for us to find a spouse. Because our parents make for it, and we choose a cute woman at the photo. For example, if we can’t choose women, we have not to participate there. We will find a good woman, we can get a spouse.
In my opinion, we find a good face and good style. I think that it is best advantage.
Second, it can be understood each family. For example, each family rarely happens the economical and domestic problem, because each family knows each other's situation before doing marriage. They allow the Japanese fixed marriage after considering the other's situation.
In my opinion, Japanese fixed marriage is good means to find a partner. I think love can be made after getting married, but good domestic backing can't be made easily. It is important thing that each family is friendly to get married.
On the other hand, I know disadvantage of Japanese fixed marriage, too.
First, it is difficult to attempt to love someone who you may don’t like at first.
For example, your spouse may not necessarily match in a marriage of convenience.
Second, it is to need to save faces of their parents. For example, it is difficult to separation and divorce if they want to live respective life. Because they probably worry that their parents are disappointed.
In my opinion, fixed marriage isn't always success. We should decide to marry after much consideration since they can’t know each other in most cases of Japanese fixed marriage.
The people who are going to marry and their family have any merits or demerits in Japanese fixed marriage. It changes for purpose. For example, when you want to find your true lover, this way isn't good. However if you are an eldest son and you should sustain your family, it is effective. So, you should choose the marriage means that it suits your taste.
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