Assignment 5: Naoto Takahashi

  I know disadvantage of Japanese Fixed Marriage.
  Thirdly,It is difficult to match character of each other.For example, 2 people see a photo of each other before meet them. However, It is difficult to judge character only from photo.
  ln my opinion, Japanese Fixed Marriage is like promise the marriage. I think it is important to match character of each other. I can't get marry a person who unfit of character. Also, It is difficult to find a partner at Japanese Fixed Marriage.

 
  Finally, You can divorce.

  For example, Even if you would like to divorce your husband,it isn`t possible because your parents chose a partner.

  In my opinion, I disagree. It doesn`t respect individual opinion.

Assignment 5: Yuki Tokutake, Nobuhito Ogata, Takayoshi Kubota, Izumi Uchida

  Japanese marriage have a lot of kinds.
  Japanese fixed marriage is one of the means to find a partner. It has opened a meeting since the past. However it has advantage and disadvantage.
  I know advantage of Japanese fixed marriage.
  First, it is easy for us to find a spouse. Because our parents make for it, and we choose a cute woman at the photo. For example, if we can’t choose women, we have not to participate there. We will find a good woman, we can get a spouse.
In my opinion, we find a good face and good style. I think that it is best advantage.
  Second, it can be understood each family. For example, each family rarely happens the economical and domestic problem, because each family knows each other's situation before doing marriage. They allow the Japanese fixed marriage after considering the other's situation.
In my opinion, Japanese fixed marriage is good means to find a partner. I think love can be made after getting married, but good domestic backing can't be made easily. It is important thing that each family is friendly to get married.
  On the other hand, I know disadvantage of Japanese fixed marriage, too.
  First, it is difficult to attempt to love someone who you may don’t like at first.
For example, your spouse may not necessarily match in a marriage of convenience.
  Second, it is to need to save faces of their parents. For example, it is difficult to separation and divorce if they want to live respective life. Because they probably worry that their parents are disappointed.
In my opinion, fixed marriage isn't always success. We should decide to marry after much consideration since they can’t know each other in most cases of Japanese fixed marriage.
  The people who are going to marry and their family have any merits or demerits in Japanese fixed marriage. It changes for purpose. For example, when you want to find your true lover, this way isn't good. However if you are an eldest son and you should sustain your family, it is effective. So, you should choose the marriage means that it suits your taste.

Assinment5: Yo Yo / Yusuke Suzuki / Akihito Ogawa

I think Fixed Marriage is good for young people. Especially someone who is shy guy. For example most of difficult people can’t express their emotions when they met someone who was truly love they can’t take about love it. They don’t know how to get long with the opposite sex. In this case, they can’t find the partner. In Chinese, their parents will help them for arranging a date. It is called blind date. It just like Japan Fixed Marriage. It will avoid some of troubles and have high successful percent for young people.

However, J.F.M. also have bad side. It will make a big mistake which you will regret in your rest of life too. Because, in J.F.M., you may be not satisfied with appearance such like this.

In addition to, I know another disadvantage of J.F.M. It is a tendency which is increasing same type’s people in a family. It is the reason why many parent like same opinion’s, similar to life styles or class of society’s family. Also they offer these family’s son or daughter for their child’s spouse. In my opinion, J.F.M. system had been many advantage in old days. For example, a family keep them tradition and the quality of profession from the point of view at ease a thought control in family. However, today people’s values dramatic change. Now a day, J.F.M. may lost former position as the best way of marriage.

After all the marriage is not a joke. It’s so holy in people’s life. J.F.M. create a chance for people to make their own marriage. Meanwhile, J.F.M. has risk too. We must make a right choice!

Assignment 5:Shota Ohshiba,Naoto Takahashi,Shunsuke Kotani

  Today, we talk about Japanese fixed marriage. There are two advantage and two disadvantage.  

  First, I know advantage of Japanese fixed marriage. It is that you can get married.  

For example, if you don't have a confidence about your face or your character, partner can't see you beforehand.

  In my opinion, I think that this method is not good. Because it's afraid to get married to the partner who doesn't know each other.

  

  Secondly, it is "You can make a good relation at the kinship."

For example, three aren't issues between your mother and daughter in law.

  In my opinion, I agree this advantage. Because this issue keep increasing recently. Therefore this divorce also increase. So I think this issue is resolved by Japanese fixed marriage.

  I know disadvantage of Japanese Fixed Marriage.

  Thirdly,It is difficult to match character of each other.For example, 2 people see a photo of each other before meet them. However, It is difficult to judge character only from photo.

  ln my opinion, Japanese Fixed Marriage is like promise the marriage. I think it is important to match character of each other. I can't get marry a person who unfit of character. Also, It is difficult to find a partner at Japanese Fixed Marriage.

  

  Finally, You can divorce.For example, Even if you would like to divorce your husband,it isn`t possible because your parents chose a partner.

  In my opinion, I disagree. It doesn`t respect individual opinion.

In conclusion, our group disagree with Japanese fixed marriage. Because it's difficult to build relationship of mutual trust, and. it's difficult to divorce. A personal opinion isn't respected. So we are disagree with Japanese fixed marriage.

Assignment 5: Nobuhito Ogata

 Second, it can be understood each family. For example, each family rarely happen the economical and domestic problem, because each family know each other's situation before doing marriage. They allow the Japanese fixed marriage after considering the other's situation.
In my opinion, Japanese fixed marriage is good means to find partner. I think love can be made after getting married, but good domestic backing can't be made easily. It is important thing that each family is friendly to get married.

Assignment 5: Tsubasa Okuyama

First, you can find a partner who will marry with you. If you busy with studying and working, to find a partner is hard. So I think Japanese Fixed Marriage is nice chance. However, we don't use it in morden times. I understand the reason becauce it is like LINE. LINE is cellphone's application. We always contact with somebody through it. So we can find a partner to use LINE. In other words, we used to use Japanese Fixed Marriage, but now we use LINE instead of Japanese Fixed Marriage.

Assignment:5 lee kwanhae/ Satoshi Watanabe/ Yuji Tanabe

 We would like to tell you about "Japanese Fixed Marriage".
 I know advantage of Japanese fixed marriage.
 It is no have daughter-in-law and mother -in-law conflicts.
 For example, in Korea they have many problems of daughter-in-law and mother-in-law conflicts.That problem cause many divorced that is big of society issue in Korea.
 In case of Japanese fixed marriage, no have daughter-in-law and mother-in-law conflicts.
 Because parents are likes your wife. Also, I think it is advantage of Japanese fixed marriage.
 Other way, we have two disadvantages of Japanese fixed marriage.
 I know disadvantage of Japanese Fixed Marriage.

 First, it is “the priority is had by the parents.”

 For example, the parents show the photo or personal data of the partner. They say, “You should marriage to this person.” Maybe, the son(daughter) has a girlfriend(boyfriend). However, they don’t consider that. So, child’s feelings is not had priority.

 In my opinion, marriage is the graveyard of life. The marriage is needed a lot of time and money. So, you should lose your personal time and money. After marry, you need to take good care of your partner. Caring needs a mind. So, you use your mind at your office and house. It is very hard to live. And, if your partner feels bad about your hobby, you need to break it. That’s because, your partner dislikes you with your hobby. Break a hobby is very painful. The hobby makes a coloring in your life. If you break your hobby, your life will be monochrome. Marriage has many risks. You lose something to marry. In worst case, your life is worse than before you marry. So, I want to not marry. If I marry, my life is finished. That’s because, marriage is the graveyard of life.

 Second, it is not understand the essence of the partner.

 For example, they who do a fixed marriage are assuming marriage from the beginning and they tend to hurry marriage. They who have a desire for marriage want to be thought to be a good person. However in other words they are likely to be a put-on. It may be a good person until marriage but partner’s character may change after marriage. It notices disagreement of the character in the later life. When you noticed later, it is late. The most evil will be made to be divorced.

In my opinion, I expect a love marriage than a fixed marriage .It wants to produce thought to marriage after loving and knowing a partner.
 Also, we are disagree with Japanese fixed marriage. Because we have two disadvantages of Japanse fixed marriage, that is "The priority is had by the parents" and "It is not understand the essence of the partner". Furthermore, we thought that two disadvantages has big risk more than advantage.Also, we are disagree with Japanese fixed marriage.