Assignment:5 lee kwanhae/ Satoshi Watanabe/ Yuji Tanabe

 We would like to tell you about "Japanese Fixed Marriage".
 I know advantage of Japanese fixed marriage.
 It is no have daughter-in-law and mother -in-law conflicts.
 For example, in Korea they have many problems of daughter-in-law and mother-in-law conflicts.That problem cause many divorced that is big of society issue in Korea.
 In case of Japanese fixed marriage, no have daughter-in-law and mother-in-law conflicts.
 Because parents are likes your wife. Also, I think it is advantage of Japanese fixed marriage.
 Other way, we have two disadvantages of Japanese fixed marriage.
 I know disadvantage of Japanese Fixed Marriage.

 First, it is “the priority is had by the parents.”

 For example, the parents show the photo or personal data of the partner. They say, “You should marriage to this person.” Maybe, the son(daughter) has a girlfriend(boyfriend). However, they don’t consider that. So, child’s feelings is not had priority.

 In my opinion, marriage is the graveyard of life. The marriage is needed a lot of time and money. So, you should lose your personal time and money. After marry, you need to take good care of your partner. Caring needs a mind. So, you use your mind at your office and house. It is very hard to live. And, if your partner feels bad about your hobby, you need to break it. That’s because, your partner dislikes you with your hobby. Break a hobby is very painful. The hobby makes a coloring in your life. If you break your hobby, your life will be monochrome. Marriage has many risks. You lose something to marry. In worst case, your life is worse than before you marry. So, I want to not marry. If I marry, my life is finished. That’s because, marriage is the graveyard of life.

 Second, it is not understand the essence of the partner.

 For example, they who do a fixed marriage are assuming marriage from the beginning and they tend to hurry marriage. They who have a desire for marriage want to be thought to be a good person. However in other words they are likely to be a put-on. It may be a good person until marriage but partner’s character may change after marriage. It notices disagreement of the character in the later life. When you noticed later, it is late. The most evil will be made to be divorced.

In my opinion, I expect a love marriage than a fixed marriage .It wants to produce thought to marriage after loving and knowing a partner.
 Also, we are disagree with Japanese fixed marriage. Because we have two disadvantages of Japanse fixed marriage, that is "The priority is had by the parents" and "It is not understand the essence of the partner". Furthermore, we thought that two disadvantages has big risk more than advantage.Also, we are disagree with Japanese fixed marriage.