We know advantages of Japanese fixed marriage.First,it is any person can find partner. For example, Though you are shy person, your parents look for your partner for child.Also you can change yourself and lifestyle to get marriage.
In my opinion,Because you meet partner between favorite person from the beggining,you can love with an easy feeling. In addition, I think that it is taken measures of the issue of declining birth rates.
Second, Omiai can keep up social position. For example, you can know marriage partner's social position in Omiai. Doctor can get marry to doctor. Politician can get marry to politician. So you can keep family line. As a result, you continue your family business.
In my opinion, it is important to keep up social position because docter needs maintain their work. Parents wants to their son get marry to someone who have social position.
However, there are disadvantages of JFM too.
First,it is no romantic. For example, JFM doesn't have "boy meets girl". If it is common marriage, you can start from a fatal meeting. In JFM, there is no predestined encounter because JFM often start "Omiai". So this is a disadvantage of JFM.
In my opinion, JFM doesn't contain a roman. However, this system gives us chance for marriage. In such a point, JFM is not only bad thing.
In my opinion, JFM doesn't contain a roman. However, this system gives us chance for marriage. In such a point, JFM is not only bad thing.
I think fixed marriage is not good.Because marriage is one of the biggest event in life.Also we spend long long time with partner after got marriage.
So,I think that we should consider about partner's bad points.Then,If you can accept it,go ahead with your life.
In our conclusion ,we agree JFM.Because there are more advantages than disadvantages in our discussion.Specifically,JFM anables us to find partner ,to keep social position and so on.In addition,it may solves the issue which is declining birth rates.
So,we think that JFM is important marriage style.
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